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I just found an unknown brother

Discussion in 'DNA Questions and Answers' started by AdrienneQ, Aug 18, 2017.

  1. AdrienneQ

    AdrienneQ Moderator Staff Member

    I sent my DNA off to Ancestry on 1st August and got my results back yesterday showing an unknown 1st cousin.
    I sent him a message last night and it seems I have just found an unknown Brother. We have exchanged messages and will be talking later. As you can imagine I am in shock.
     
    AdrienneQ, Aug 18, 2017
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  2. Susan

    Susan LostCousins Member

    I am also in shock - I also posted my DNA sample to Ancestry on 1 August. It was only logged as arrived on 15 August and I had the email this this morning (18th) to say they've started processing it. How can 2 samples posted on the same day have such a difference in testing times? I know there is an unusually high demand at the moment due to the 25% off offer, but that should have affected your sample as well (your profile says you are in the UK like me) :confused:
     
    Susan, Aug 18, 2017
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  3. Pauline

    Pauline LostCousins Megastar

    Yes, I can imagine. I take it this is a half brother?

    DNA testing has the potential to turn up the unexpected, as does all genealogy research, and when it involves someone close to you it can be a big shock.

    It happened to me personally in a lesser way when I first started researching. Also once or twice since then I have been approached by a distantly related researcher only to realise I had come across somewhat sensitive information about a close relative of theirs that they were until then unaware of.
     
    Pauline, Aug 18, 2017
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  4. peter

    peter Administrator Staff Member

    Remember that these forum posts can be seen by anyone - be careful what you post as it might compromise someone's privacy.
     
    peter, Aug 18, 2017
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  5. Tim

    Tim Megastar and Moderator Staff Member

    Looking forward to hear what you find out Adrienne, but to Peter's point, best not mention any names.
     
    Tim, Aug 18, 2017
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  6. AdrienneQ

    AdrienneQ Moderator Staff Member

    Peter thanks for the timely reminder about the access to these posts.
    I spoke to my elder half brother yesterday and we had a great conversation.
    I understand our father offered to marry his mother but she said no, this was just before WW2 so everything then changed.

    We will be in contact again (in fact I will be emailing him in a minute)

    I think I will leave it there because of the confidentiality, just to say all is good
     
    AdrienneQ, Aug 19, 2017
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    • Thanks! Thanks! x 6

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